Come Sing a Song With Me

I left my church service Sunday frustrated and unhappy. It wasn’t the sermon—our minister delivered an engaging and thought-provoking talk on the sin of pride. And it wasn’t the choir’s performance that bothered me—they were in good voice. It was the congregational singing that upset me. Let me tell you why.

 I’m a Unitarian Universalist, have been for over 50 years. Our denomination has two main hymnals, the grey hymnal, with 415 hymns, and the blue hymnal, with 75. The grey hymnal is the old standard; the blue hymnal, introduced in 2005, offers fresh music with contemporary themes and modern rhythms.

 In all my varied congregations over the years, there are some songs that have been used more than others. Some songs have different words but share melodies. When the blue hymnals came out, we purposely learned the new music and developed new favorites there. Congregations sang in strong, confident voices because we knew the songs.

 Cut to yesterday, which is only an example of a bigger phenomenon. The two hymns selected for the congregation were entirely unknown to me. They both came from the grey hymnal, which I’ve been singing out of for 50+ years, but I couldn’t remember ever singing either of them. And from the halting, mumbled voices around me, neither had anyone else in the pews.

 People weren’t using hymnals because the words floated above us on a giant screen over the altar, with no musical notation. The hymnals were available, of course, but they’re unwieldy and mostly unused. I’m pretty sure someone picked those hymns to enhance the message of the sermon. They did not pick them to be sing-able.

 I remember loud, vigorous singing in church that could lift your spirit and engage your heart. That only happens if people know, or can read, the words and music. If they know the melody, they can make the words work, the reverse is much harder. Although we do sing familiar hymns at my church, we don’t do it often enough. I miss vigorous, heartfelt church singing. In today’s fraught world, I need vigorous, heartfelt church singing.

 I talked with Michael about it on the ride home and mulled my dissatisfaction for a while. And then I had an epiphany. Why do I expect my congregation to sing with heart when a whole culture has forgotten how? Group singing, community singing, used to be a thing in America. And it isn’t any longer. I don’t just miss raising my voice confidently in song at church; I miss it everywhere.

 Where has all the singing gone? At the beginning of athletic events, at birthday parties, at church, at concerts for those who can afford the tickets. That’s about it. But we used to sing together a lot.

 Now is where the old lady’s remember-when, in-the-olden-days, stuff starts. We used to have shows on television with a lot of music. The Lawrence Welk Show, the Ed Sullivan Show, the Smothers Brothers, Hee Haw, The Andy Williams Show, The Dean Martin Show, Sonny and Cher, and Donny and Marie, to name a few.

 We had folk singers, hootenannies, and sing-alongs. Remember Mitch Miller’s Sing Along with Mitch from the 80s? Okay, just the old people do, but look him up. Americans used to sing together, even if we were in our own living rooms among family. And at marches and protests for Vietnam and civil rights, we sang folk standards and old-timey hymns like We Shall Overcome, Blowin’ in the Wind, Kumbaya, and The Times They Are a-Changin’.

 Schools, especially elementary schools, had music classes where we learned the standards. All Through the Night, Amazing Grace, America the Beautiful, The Battle Hymn of the Republic, Blue Tail Fly, Bingo, Buffalo Gals, Camptown Races, Dixie, Down by the Bay, Farmer in the Dell, Frѐre Jacques, Go Tell Aunt Rhody, God Bless America, Home on the Range, The Hokey Pokey, I’ve Been Working on the Railroad… I could literally go on and on.

 We knew these songs and we sang them at Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts, around campfires of all kinds, at gatherings of all kinds. And, of course, we sang Christmas carols, in public, with other people. And we knew more words than the first two lines of the songs. We had song sheets or song books when we needed them.

 What happened to singing? What happened to group fun? Why is everyone sitting in front of a computer or cell phone or TV set watching other people do things and not doing anything themselves? Where are our friends besides in text messages?

 Sadly, I have no insightful conclusion today, simply a longing for something missing from life in 2026. If you have any answers, I’d love to hear them. Wouldn’t it feel great to get together and sing your heart out with a bunch of other people?

 What are you doing next weekend?

Ciao

P.S. Here's a rendition of one of my favorite UU hymns from the blue hymnal. It's not rousing, but it is SO heartfelt. Plus, I know the composer. Come Sing a Song With Me 

Liberté, égalité, fraternité

 I typically stay away from political topics, but once in a while—like my vaccine post on September 1, 2025 —I must address behavior that I consider morally bankrupt and even criminal. The murders by ICE agents in Minneapolis are the epitome of that behavior.

 Many people are as appalled as I am, and many are writing or posting about it.  My post is about my feelings, widely shared I believe. I do not pretend to be objective or reportorial. What I am is outraged.

 How dare you, Trump and cronies, upend the course of American life with phony and false narratives about deporting the “worst of the worst” when we can clearly see that this is a lie? Do you think Americans are stupid?

 Despite the outright lies of Kristi Noem, a woman who has perfected prissiness and belligerence, and of Border Patrol official Gregory Bovino, neither Renee Good or Alex Pretti were terrorists, domestic or otherwise. Neither of them presented a threat to ICE agents. Both of them were murdered in cold blood.

 How do I know this? Because I watched the many on-site, in-the-moment videos bystanders made on their phones. Not the AI-doctored crap that rightwing influencers are putting up on the internet to prove Noem and Bovino were correct. No, I’m talking about the IRL videos that abound thanks to the people of Minneapolis taking their jobs as documenters of wrongdoing seriously.

 To Donald Trump, Kristi Noem, Gregory Bovino, and every other lying mouthpiece of this administration I say this: Our eyes do not deceive us. You cannot deceive us. We know immorality and criminality when we see it. It’s past time to stop your false narrative and take responsibility for your actions.

  When reality feels unbearable, I turn to art that mirrors it back to us—sometimes more truthfully than the official record. Therefore, I am recommending two movies to everyone who has not seen them.

 The first is Civil War, a thriller about America—our America, this America— in a civil war. It takes no sides, assigns no rightwing or leftwing interpretations to events. Civil War simply reveals what a civil war would do to our society and our citizens if it happened now.

 The scenes of an America we recognize destroyed by bombs, of Americans we recognize lining up for food in a Wal-Mart parking lot, of American combatants who look just like us because they are us dumping bodies in unmarked graves are beyond chilling. Kirsten Dunst stars in the movie and is supported by a strong cast. Jesse Plemons delivers a disturbing cameo as the soldier overseeing the burial detail. That was, for me, the film's most harrowing scene.

 The other movie I highly recommend is Bonhoeffer. It is an historical drama about Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a German theologian, and anti-Nazi dissident. In this movie, you will see how cleverly and insidiously the Nazi movement overwhelmed Germany and perverted its people into accomplices in the worst war crimes in history. You will recognize some of those tactics in practice by our government right now.

 (Let me add that there is some controversy about an important detail of this film that Bonhoeffer’s family disputes in the strongest terms. You can find that information on the internet and I urge you to read it.)

 I am demoralized but not deterred. I believe that the rule of law will persevere, although I foresee much more pain before things turn around. I don’t want a longer list of martyrs to the cause of liberty and freedom, but I fear there will be more. I hope that our collective voices of outrage will bring down the figurative walls of Congress so that our representatives hear—and heed—our outcry.

We must keep speaking, keep documenting, keep resisting—because silence is complicity.

 Liberté, égalité, fraternité

 

 

In My Dreams

 Everyone knows that when your phone rings and it’s still dark outside, the voice on the other end of the line will bear bad news. The only question is what kind of bad news are you about to hear. So when our home phone shrilled in the dark, and I saw that it was 5:15 am, my heart clenched and my throat went dry. I said a groggy hello, not knowing that this would be the most dreadful conversation of my life.

“Is this Mrs. Devereux?”

 “Yes, who are you?”

 “I’m a nurse at CHRISTUS Mother Frances Hospital in Sulphur Springs. We have your daughter Victoria in the emergency room.”

 I expected to hear terrible news about something like a serious car accident, but instead she said, “I’m sorry to have to tell you this, but there’s been a fire at her home.”

 I gasped and grabbed on to Michael, who had walked around to my side of the bed. “A fire?”

 “Yes. The ambulance brought her in with burns and lacerations. We’re treating her now.”

 “What about the girls?”

 “I don’t know anything about anyone else. They just brought in your daughter.”

 A few minutes later, as I tried to comprehend what I’d just heard, Victoria came on the line. She spoke between heaving sobs, and I could barely make out her words. The nurse came back on the line. “I think you need to get here as fast as you can.”

 In shock and disbelief, Michael and I clung to each other, speechless.

 Our bags were already packed because we were going up to Sulphur Springs later that day for a weekend visit. Our granddaughters were celebrating their birthdays with a joint party on Saturday. Heaven would turn 4 on the 31^st and today, the 20^th, was Hayden’s first birthday.

 We had packed the evening before, so fifteen minutes after I hung up the phone, we got in our car and drove north toward Victoria and, we prayed, toward Heaven and Hayden.

 It was a five-hour drive from our house outside of Houston to her North Texas home. We drove as fast as we dared, but it wasn’t fast enough.

 About nine, Victoria called us again. Still crying, but much more composed.

 “Are the girls there with you, Tori?”

 “Not yet,” she said, “Before they took me away in the ambulance, a fireman told me the house was too hot to go into.”

I couldn’t understand why the firefighters didn’t get Heaven and Hayden immediately. Why would they wait?

 “Just a minute, Mom, they’re here.”

 Suddenly I heard Victoria give a low, sobbing moan that shook my world.

 “NO! NO! NO! Where are my babies? Please bring me my babies!”

 The children hadn’t survived the fire. Victoria was beyond speech. We were an hour and a half away. All we could do for her was drive faster.

 The story of how we all coped— and are still coping— with the tragic loss of our two beloved girls is far too long to tell here; it takes up several chapters in my memoir, The Requirements of Love. But tomorrow is the 4^th anniversary of Heaven and Hayden’s deaths. It is a time of profound grief for everyone who loved them.

 One element of that grief is the loss of them as children growing up and maturing. Heaven had a saucy, lively, intelligence to her that I can envision at an older age, but Hayden was barely one. A beautiful child, and a happy one, she hadn’t had the chance to show us yet who she might become. I feel that loss very deeply.

 This year I decided to peek into the future that never happened, to see the girls with fresh eyes. I got on my favorite AI program, Copilot, and did an age progression of my favorite photo of them. I wanted to see Heaven as an 8-year-old and Hayden as a 5-year-old.

 It took a lot of tinkering. In the first round of changes, the AI program left Hayden with her wispy bits of baby hair instead of showing it grown out as it would have. And in the original photo, Hayden is looking down. She had beautiful blue eyes and I wanted her to show them to the camera, so I had the photo adjusted to make her look ahead.

 That photo made me cry, but it also made my smile. I am so glad to think of my girls growing and thriving. I don’t know what happens after we die, but a happy afterlife certainly appeals to me. Just because they are lost to this world doesn’t mean they couldn’t grow up in some other one.

 Here are both pictures. Look closely and you’ll see what I see: each of the pictures is real.

  

Ciao

 

 

 

What Gives You Hope?

 I try to keep my voice light even when, occasionally, I address difficult topics. So many of the world’s stories these days batter my soul and I need relief from them. I suspect many of you feel the same way and my topics often veer away from our troubling reality. Nevertheless, I watch the evening news every day. I read the newspaper every morning. I always wake up to All Things Considered on NPR. Maybe I’m a glutton for punishment.

 I am so overwhelmed some days by what I read and hear that I just want to sit in my recliner and read some non-reality-based fiction. Fantasy is good, and I’m currently rereading the 14-book series The Wheel of Time.

 The first time I read it, I had to wait a year or two between books: the first year for the author, Robert Jordan, to release the hardback version, which I found too expensive to buy, and then perhaps another year for the more affordable paperback version to come out. In this way, over almost two decades, I completed the entire series. Michael read it, too, and it gave us a lot to talk about as we went along.

 Michael likes to reread books and he read this series so many times that the pages darkened and fell out. He accepted this loss for years, but around the time of Covid, decided he had to replace them and began purchasing them in boxed sets. As he finished a set, he would buy the next box of books.

 Michael is a very fast reader and it didn’t take him long to read every one of the 14 books again. I started thinking that I would like to reread the books. This is not typical for me. I rarely return to a book, no matter how much I like it. I find having it in the bookcase, running my eyes across the spine once in a while, and remembering my enjoyment is enough.

 Because I didn’t expect to dive into the series again, I didn’t mind when our son, Nick, asked to borrow them even though he lives in Brooklyn. On our next visit, Michael packed them all in a suitcase and surrendered them on Nick’s solemn oath that they’d be returned. (Details on the return were sketchy. Nick works and has a family, so we knew he wouldn’t be speed reading like his dad.)

 After Nick finished, his wife decided that she would take a turn with the 14 books. A working mom, Kate didn’t have lots of time either, so the months stretched into a few years. By that time, someone had decided to make a television series out of the story.

 It was an ambitious undertaking because the themes and multiple story lines of the Wheel of Time are complex and wickedly intertwined. There have been two seasons so far and Michael and I have watched both.

 They have high production values, lots of excellent special effects, and good acting. What more could you want? Well, I wanted them to stick to the story! The writers changed things, probably because the books are so dense that doing them faithfully would be a 20-year undertaking. But it bothered me.

I couldn’t remember plot details clearly — it had been decades since I read the books — and I frequently pestered Michael with questions about things that seemed wrong to me. Quite often, they were deviations, but not always. It frustrated me not to remember clearly.

 Sometime between those two seasons, Nick returned all 14 of the books. Michael reread the whole series yet again. I looked at them in their neat rows on a prominent shelf and started thinking maybe I’d read them too. But I didn’t start — until last week.

 Battered by news that made me cringe and cry and rage all at the same time, I decided to sink myself so deeply into fantasy that I blocked out reality. I’m almost finished with Book Two in less than a week, and these are 900-1000 page books.

 It isn’t working perfectly. I still know the horrible events of the world and of our country because I’m still connected to the news cycle. But when I’m reading, I am so engrossed in the complexities of that story that I get a reprieve from reality. And that’s all I want, a reprieve.

 I’m not trying to pretend the bad news and, frankly, evil, isn’t still out there and getting worse by the day. But in Jordan’s books, the good guys and the evildoers are battling on a cosmic level, and good seems to win somehow, even when things seem hopeless. It is encouraging.

 One lesson of the series is that this battle between good and evil is never-ending. It seems worse when we are in the middle of it, like right now, but it’s happened before and goodness has prevailed. Another lesson is that people are surprising. A good guy turns out to be corrupted; a bad guy has an epiphany and changes sides. What you think you know isn’t real until you see it happen.

 I have a bit of Book Two plus 12 additional books left to read in the Wheel of Time. That should take me through winter. By springtime, I’m praying that things in our world will be looking up as much as they improved in the Wheel of Time’s world. If not, I have several more fantasy series that I haven’t read in years. Good always wins in those books, too.

 What gives you hope and comfort these days?

What's in Your Basket?

 Give me a basket of clean clothes, right out of the dryer, and I’m a happy woman. Since my oldest child was an infant — in the olden days of cloth diapers — I have enjoyed folding clothes. I became a single mom early in her life and suffered the same overload that single parents face today. There’s too much to do, not enough time or money, and something always seems to go wrong at the most inauspicious moment.

 During the overload of events in a normal day, sitting down to fold a pile of clean diapers gave me a welcome break. I was doing something that needed to be done, but it was simple, even mindless, and the feel of the soft fabric in my hands was comforting.

 Folding clothes has never been a chore for me. I know people who hate to do it, though. Some of them dress out of laundry baskets, something that raises the hackles of my anti-wrinkle sensibilities. I’ve given up ironing and use Downy Wrinkle Release when it’s really needed, but I don’t like to put on wrinkled clothes. That makes folding out of the dryer even more important.

 It also makes proper folding imperative. My husband thinks that my notions of proper folding are total overkill and he may be right. Perhaps there is a touch of OCD in the neat little bundles that I fold t-shirts into, but it’s really essential from a storage standpoint: if I don’t fold them just right, they will not fit into my t-shirt drawer!

 T-shirts are soft, like cloth diapers, and comforting to fold. But they present special problems. People give you tees with clever sayings on them and you have to keep those gifts. And you see beautiful, or funny, or whimsical tees that you fall in love with and you have to keep those. And there are the mementos of places you visit or events you attend. You definitely have to keep those.

 All these have-to-keeps mean my t-shirt drawer is stuffed with 55 tees. I counted them last night after I put away the freshly folded clothes just for today’s blog. 55. OMG, that seems excessive even to me. I think about culling them — curating them is a gentler notion — but I never want to give any up. Could it be an addiction?

 I bought a lovely tee in Ireland several years ago. After a few washes (and maybe a few pounds), it no longer fit. Did I throw it out? NO! I cut out the lovely image and appliquéd it onto a brand-new t-shirt bought for that express purpose. At least that was a zero sum transaction. If I get one more t-shirt, I will have to get rid of something because nothing else will fit in the drawer. Catastrophe!

 In order to get 55 t-shirts into a standard IKEA, dresser drawer, I have perfected folding them into 5X7 packets that may be anywhere from an inch to 3 inches deep, depending on the thickness of the fabric. They march across my drawer in three rows. It’s a bit harder to haul them out of the back row, but I manage.

 If I’m going to admit to my t-shirt OCD tendencies, I’ll add that I try to pull them out from left to right and alternate rows so all the tees get their chance to be worn. When I put away clean shirts, they always go on the right side of the row. It’s an inventory thing to me. Gotta rotate the stock.

 Beyond the nostalgia problem, what do you do with old t-shirts? I resist putting them in the trash because — landfills. My recycler won’t take them. Thrift shops don’t want them either. What do you do with an old Houston Ballet t-shirt from a dance program 8 years ago or a family reunion shirt from 12 years ago? They’re too worn to wear, too special to give up, and you can only use so many cleaning rags.

For now, I am trying not to acquire t-shirts. I have moved some into an archive of sorts with a dream of making myself a t-shirt memory quilt someday, if I live long enough. (One of those t-shirts is from 1966. Another is from the early 70s. They are truly memory keepers.)  As long as a few t-shirts are still in the dirty clothes, my drawer is manageable. The real crunch only occurs after I fold the clean laundry.

I find that, with t-shirts, it’s all about balance. What are you balancing these days?

Ciao

 

 

 

 

Worlds of Wonderment

 Our grandkids arrived from Brooklyn on December 26 and flew home again on December 31. After a fun-filled, busy, and — for us old people — fairly exhausting round of activities all over Houston, I came home from the airport yesterday, took a nap, and vegged out for the rest of 2025. Thus, my last blog post of 2025 has become my first blog post of 2026.

 An 8-year-old boy (Gabe) and a 12-year-old girl (Felix) seemed like a pretty safe bet for an unaccompanied holiday trip to Grandma and Grandpa’s house. They are not toddlers who get into everything, they can manage their own personal needs, and they are excellent communicators most of the time. Piece of cake.

 Because of the kids, Michael and I explored worlds of wonderment that old folks rarely visit. One day, we went to Artechouse, an immersive art and technology environment that was tremendously fascinating and fun, especially the interactive exhibits.

 One night, we went to the Museum of Fine Arts Houston’s holiday program at Bayou Bend, a gorgeous estate that was decked out with what looked like a million lights and lots of activities for families. I particularly liked the building that came to life through the magic of video technology. The animated antics were very realistic, even though you knew they were impossible.

 We took several shopping trips to various locales where the kids spent their Christmas money. I have permission to walk in my boot, but the outlet mall sorely overtaxed me and I may have gotten a little crabby about all the walking. The kids did find good stores, though, like Earth’s Ology, where they bought rocks and uncut gemstones for their collections.

 During their five days here, we also managed pizza night and a game night with Aunt Alix and Uncle Adam. And we saw the new Spongebob Squarepants movie, my first opportunity to actually experience the Spongebob phenomenon. Wow. I had NO idea what I was missing — but I’m totally okay with continuing to miss it.

 At home, we had several distractions that fascinated the kids. Number one: Frankie, the elderly cat I wrote about earlier this year. Although Frankie has blossomed from totally timid to almost outgoing in the year since his housemate Baby died, he is still quite reluctant to meet new people, especially children. (Our toddler grandson AJ terrorized him on a regular basis the six months he lived here.)

 Felix and Gabe are nice kids and did not terrorize Frankie except for the fact that they were breathing in his vicinity. The administration of excessive treats persuaded him to accept the calm petting Felix bestowed on him. Gabe got in a little petting, too, but he’s allergic to cats, so not very much.

 What Gabe got that THRILLED him was guns — toy guns, to be clear — a shotgun and a kind of Gatling gun/pistol combo. Why do we have two such toys, you might ask? A gift from Alix and Adam years ago, they were intended as an encouragement to playfulness.

 We never really warmed up to the idea of gunfights, though. We did shoot them for the cats, who loved chasing the nerf bullets, but, as cats do not fetch, hunting bullets all over the house quickly lost its appeal. We put them in a game cupboard and forgot about them. Gabe found them seemingly within minutes of arriving at our house.

 In between all these activities, the kids played various loud and raucous games that may have been tag. They spent some time outdoors, a relief for old ears, and Gabe was delightfully willing to fetch mail and the newspaper for his hobbled old Grandma.

Electronics filled in empty spots, with Gabe playing on our antiquated Wii system and Felix on her tablet. Those were the only quiet moments and I’m glad there weren’t too many of them.

We had fun with the kids and are very glad they visited us. Last year they came with their parents and that was nice, too. We’ll have to see what next year brings. In the meantime, happy New Year to you all!

Ciao

Busy, Busy, Busy

 December and the beginning of January are busy, busy, busy times at our house. Michael and I got married on December 21, not realizing—sweet young things that we were—that children would bring school events that crowded our anniversary almost to oblivion. School pageants, and later band recitals, for two or three kids often left us eating our anniversary dinner in January.

 Christmas is frenetic with all the shopping for and wrapping and hiding gifts. Fun, but time consuming. On Christmas Eve, we are in the habit of going to our church for the evening candlelight service, replete with carols and good cheer. Then we go home for a special meal: cheese and crackers, sausage, fresh fruit, and Christmas cookies, along with obligatory Irish coffee.

 The Irish coffee is served in beautiful goblets that are embossed in gold and green with lines indicating how much sugar, how much whiskey, and how much coffee. You’re on your own for the whipped cream serving, but I think that frothing over the goblet is just right. We received the Irish coffee goblets as a wedding gift in 1976 and we have toasted Christmas Eve with them every year for the last 49 years. Kids partake too, with the whiskey adjusted appropriately.

 We used to open presents on Christmas Eve after dinner—hence the easy to make and to clean up meal— and Santa left gifts for Christmas morning, but, as a family, we decided to go full Christmas morning for gifts after I became ill with lupus. We needed to streamline our traditions to make it easier to manage. The ‘new’ way worked well enough that we’ve kept on doing it for about 30 years.

 Now that we’ve gotten through our anniversary, Christmas Eve, and Christmas Day, you’d think a little peace and relaxation would descend on the house. Wrong—I’m still busy. December 28 is Michael’s birthday. Since it’s right after the holidays, I always try to make him feel extra special. And because I am a dedicated sale shopper, I almost always buy those gifts in the after-Christmas sales, so I have to duke it out with the crowds.

 The cake is baked, the gifts wrapped, and his special dinner is cooked. Now can we get some peace and quiet? Heck no. It’s New Year’s Eve and fireworks are blasting the night skies all over our neighborhood. Fireworks are legal in Harris County. It’s mayhem.

 Okay, New Year’s Day has arrived, a quiet day for most people. But most people don’t have a son whose birthday is January 2^nd. We do. He has had some doozies when it came to birthday dinner requests. One notable year, he asked for pepperoni pizza and for everybody to get two cans of soda! Now that he’s middle-aged himself and lives far away, we’re off the hook for the extra sodas.

 As a special added attraction, our Brooklyn grandkids (8 and 12) are coming solo for a visit from the 26^th to the 31^st. Fun is planned, tickets are purchased, and it’s coming together. But there is a lot to do to get ready.

 In the past, January also contained my grandmother’s birthday on January 3. And three of my brothers have birthdays on the 7^th, 8^th, and 9^th. Those birthdays require virtually nothing of me nowadays, although we did travel to Arizona for my oldest brother’s 80^th birthday two years ago. A fun time, totally worth the travel bother!

 But new birthdays have happened: our two granddaughters’ birthdays are on December 3^rd and 5^th! So, let’s count it up. From December 1^st through January 9^th, my family (including family of origin) celebrates 8 birthdays, a wedding anniversary, two major, multi-day holidays that require gift giving and out-of-town company for five days. Is it any wonder that I’m exhausted thinking about it?

Who am I kidding? The joy of celebrating with family and friends far outweighs the hassles of the season. Even when I’m falling behind, and I get slower at this stuff every year, I love the outcomes.

 However many events you may be celebrating this season, I hope your life is as overflowing with love and fun as mine.

 From our busy, busy house to yours,

Ciao